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I am a Freshman Electrical Engineering student and have always struggled with school all my life ... yet somehow pulled off scholar type grades till now , I have always been a self learner and cant recall a time where I really learned something in any class.. I have a whole bunch of quirks and things I do before i actually begin a task and have always been extremely forgetful , I score well on those ADHD quizzes but am not sure if I could really be diagnosed with it.I am extremely desperate and dont know what to do anymore tried all kinds of study methods to try to prevent whatever is happening affect me but I am on the verge of losing my scholarship and my mind ..... I need tips advice ..
are there good chances of me getting diagnosed with ADD or is it toooo late ???
How long does it take to get diagnosed and prescribed meds ??
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I have gone an entire year of college trying to convince myself that its just the change in pace/difficulty
so I'm not a college student looking for an excuse to get drugs ..
are there good chances of me getting diagnosed with ADD or is it toooo late ???
How long does it take to get diagnosed and prescribed meds ??
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I have gone an entire year of college trying to convince myself that its just the change in pace/difficulty
so I'm not a college student looking for an excuse to get drugs ..
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Re: Need Help
Mon, June 2, 2008 - 9:59 AMwhere there's a will, there's a way, grasshopper ..... -
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Mon, June 2, 2008 - 10:27 AMIt sounds like you had addapted your learning style according to whatever your struggling with. ADHD happens to come in many stipes, so often you might have a dozen ADHD people in the same room but have different characteristics.
While it is much better to get diagnosed sooner than later, you can always benefit from diagnoses. I myself had been diagnosed about 8 months ago and I will probably changing meds soon. ADHD often lurkes in our social life, and our home life, not just in the classroom. The drugs are only part of the solution, some people don't find it works and others badly need it. -
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Mon, June 2, 2008 - 10:50 AMIm a third time around student at 37 and always struggled with memory, focus, and procrastination but managed good grades just could never finish due to the challenges... Add and dyslexia as I would see it. and researching.
I never would have said so before( denial big time) out of fear of being labeled a " nut" ( which I feel like at times but didnt want anyone else to know it).
whats important is that you take care of your self.
Ive never been diagnosed and really want to at this point
I am considering meds only because I want to finish this time..
getting help doesnt mean weakness
Ive come a long way through self teaching and discipline but its still difficult..
It is what it is so we do what we must... try whatever works for you.
Go ahead and get tested I would say... If you feel that strongly about it and you seem very dtermined to accomplish your goals ...
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Re: Need Help
Mon, June 2, 2008 - 10:52 AMFirst thing you need to do is to go to disabled student services at your school. They should be able to help keep you from getting into acedamic trouble (in the short run) while you deal with seeing a doctor.
At one point in time, doctors would consider diagnosing an adult with ADD, but times are changing so talk to a doctor and be prepared to get second or third opinions. -
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Mon, June 2, 2008 - 10:58 AMalways good with the advice Troy.....
You know after I get my BS in human services next year I was considering going for my Masters in social work ..
Im not so sure now and
Im considering going for a Masters in childhood education and find training in teaching specialized methods for add and dyslexia...
been looking up places for certification...well see.
good luck everyone
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Mon, June 2, 2008 - 11:14 AMAlso disabled student services are very familiar with the needs of ADHD so they are likely to know what you need to do.
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Wed, June 4, 2008 - 12:24 PMOften the differences in learning associated with ADHD don't really affect performance in a school until the material becomes challenging enough for the ADHD to impact performance. I'm one who's hesitant to even call ADHD a disorder, as it seems, at least in my case, to come with as many gifts as there are deficits. I tend to think of it as a difference. But let's face it, most schools are not exactly structured to accommodate this particular difference.
See if you can actually get evaluated by psycho educational testing rather than just telling a shrink your life story. They've gotten really good at identifying ADHD through psycho educational testing, and there are a lot of opportunities for misdiagnosis without it. For example, the manic phase of type 2 bipolar (that's the kind where you don't typically wind up walking down the street naked talking to god) looks exactly like ADHD, and would qualify as ADHD. The best diagnosis is one that combines psycho educational testing with talking to a good shrink. -
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Wed, June 4, 2008 - 1:25 PMAfter going though at least half a dozen therapist, It wasn't until my mid fortys that I have been identified with ADHD. So getting direct testing is more ideal. As for therapy, my current one is probably more useful partly do to better than average competence and by the fact that ADHD is identified.
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Wed, June 4, 2008 - 1:45 PM"I'm one who's hesitant to even call ADHD a disorder, as it seems, at least in my case, to come with as many gifts as there are deficits."
I agree which is why I think of ADD/ADHD as a situational disability. If one is being forced to do things the way someone without ADD would do it then one will have problems. On the other hand ADD clearly has survival advantages - we become calmer and more focused under stress (think along the lines of hunting, combat and crisis management) where most people quickly fall apart.
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Sat, July 5, 2008 - 6:26 PMhmm... your story brings back memories. I think engineering by itself is a hard career to follow which i myself struggle with. The only way i made it through was with... inspiration i guess. In freshmen year i was ready to change majors, at that time to me it seemed that it was not worth it to study like that while other people studied less and eventually would get pay more than me. anyways oneday i got to talking to a junior and he explained to me everything, that in order to make it through you must like engineering and that it is hard and he told me not to give up. he told me that i am going feel like droping out and giving up. i was shocked how does he know how i feel? and i told him that was how i exactly felt and he said that most engineering students feel like that. but in your case i am guessing you can't afford to get any c's and must keep a gpa of 3.0 and higher. that is hard but it is possible. So what does this have to do ADD... obviously nothing but i did write a research paper on this back in my junior year in my psychology class. And i like to think of it as an obstacle that your brain unconsciously puts on you. and i think that is my advice to you think of this "disease" as an obstacle and that it is only an obstacle. Don't go into medication cause all medication has side affects which might make it even worse.-- it is only an obstacle if you can make it an obstacle -
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Sat, July 5, 2008 - 11:54 PMAlthough medications often have side-effects, not everyone suffers from them. As of yet, we don't have methods that will allow us to tell who will have side-effects or how strong they will be. It is poor advice to advise that one not take medication because one might have side-effect to that medication, instead one should be informed about the possible side-effects then allowed to make one's own decission. -
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Sun, July 6, 2008 - 12:36 AMI agree, and one thing I understand about the physiology of ADHD is that it really is different from person to person. I was in a class for people learning about ADHD and one of the people there is well organized, while other people, like myself, are horrible at it. Some people can remember things, no problem, while there are some of us who don't remember most things, and for me, proper nouns are often a problem, as well has keeping track of days. It sometimes is because of an acquired damage, and sometimes it is genetic. Drugs are the same way. I first used Welbutrin, which really helped in my depression as well, but I was not making much progress, Ritalin I am just now getting on to. Its a problem because I have high blood pressure already, and my psychiatrist is worried that it could make it worst. The only reason why the risk is being taken because I have an incredible life time distress because of ADHD. Yes I could get other ADHD from it, but so far it hasn't come to surface yet, and I am desparate. I have only learned of this last year when I was 44, and I can tell you, I need this stuff, because it wasn't better before the drugs.
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